7 Ways Your Communications Are Failing You (And What to Do Instead)

7 Ways Your Communications Are Failing You KDH Consulting

You’re busy. Your team is busy. Everyone is juggling tasks, meetings, and deadlines. So why does it sometimes feel like no one is actually communicating?

Communication is the nervous system of your business. When it’s working well, ideas flow, collaboration thrives, and people feel informed and empowered. When it’s not? Confusion, frustration, and missed opportunities start piling up.

Here’s the truth: most communication failures aren’t because people don’t care. It’s usually the little things—habits that seem harmless in the moment but quietly sabotage effectiveness and morale.

Let’s look at seven common communication pitfalls—and how to fix them before they create unnecessary friction.

1. Channel Spamming
Jumping across multiple platforms like a digital ping-pong ball doesn’t speed up responses—it erodes trust. Unless it’s a true emergency, pick one channel and stick with it.

Instead: Choose the best-fit platform based on urgency and complexity, then wait for a response before following up elsewhere.

 

2. Forgetting Attachments or Access Permissions
We’ve all hit send too fast, only to realize the file isn’t attached—or worse, it’s restricted. These tiny slip-ups cause big delays.

Instead: Pause before you send. Do a 5-second check for attachments, links, and permissions. Bonus: your credibility goes up.

 

3. Talking on Mute
It’s 2025. “You’re on mute” shouldn’t still be the most used phrase in meetings. Yet here we are.

Instead: Learn your mute hotkeys and stay present. Being visibly engaged—camera on, nodding, reacting—keeps you in the game and ready to contribute.

 

4. Ghosting Your Colleagues
Nothing stalls momentum like sending “Do you have 10 minutes?” and never following up. It’s not just frustrating—it damages trust.

Instead: If your situation changes, loop back. Even a “Hey, I got pulled into something—let’s reconnect tomorrow” goes a long way. Closure is kind.

 

5. Writing Email Novellas
If your email looks more like a novel than a note, chances are it’s not getting read—or understood.

Instead: Lead with key points. If there’s nuance to unpack, offer to discuss live. Respect people’s time by keeping communication concise and clear.

 

6. Hitting Reply All Unnecessarily
Not everyone needs to know you said “Thanks!” Worse, you could accidentally reply-all with sensitive information.

Instead: Use “Reply All” sparingly and intentionally. When in doubt, direct replies save inboxes—and relationships.

 

7. Using Jargon, Acronyms, or Emojis Thoughtlessly
Business slang, shorthand, or 😅 emojis might make sense to you—but they may confuse or alienate others.

Instead: Know your audience. When clarity matters, skip the jargon and opt for plain language. And save the winks and giggles for your group chat.

 

The best communications are clear, intentional, and human. They’re not about over-talking or over-policing—they’re about creating the kind of environment where people feel respected, seen, and informed.

At KDH Consulting, we help leaders and teams untangle communication breakdowns and build systems that support connection, clarity, and culture. From communication audits to hands-on workshops, we’ve helped teams of all sizes communicate with more impact—and less noise.

Whether your team is remote, hybrid, or all in one place, the way you communicate internally is your culture in motion.

 

Ready to build something better? Let’s talk.